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Question: We have a "high conflict" relationship. Is this class right for me? Answer: Definitely!! Some of the most successful graduates of Cooperative Parenting are labeled "high conflict" parents. It is impossible to predict which parents will seize the good learning and tools offered to them in the Cooperative Parenting class and change the dynamics of their relationship with the other parent. All parents can benefit from participation - no matter where they are on the "Conflict Continuum". Most importantly, no matter how high the conflict or how long the conflict has persisted, positive change is always possible and desirable. When only one parent opts for a civilized approach, the children are the beneficiaries of these improvements. Question: Why isn't Cooperative Parenting offered as an on-line class? Answer: On-line learning, particularly for this kind of class is far less effective and is discouraged by many experts. Research on divorce education internet classes learning states that "in the room" learning with other parents is the most powerful and therapeutic intervention for these parents. The benefits of group dynamics and social learning far outweigh the "convenience" factor provided by on-line classes. There is no substitute for sitting in a class with others who are struggling with similar problems and reaching for better solutions. Question: Why should I invest my time, energy and money in Cooperative Parenting Class? Answer: Because you love your children and want to spare them the trauma and pain of a conflicted co-parenting relationship. Creating peaceful bridges between homes for dual-household children is the most compelling reason to attend Cooperative Parenting. Children are benefitted and parents focus their resources on strategies that win. When one parent decides to be a responsible and cordial co-parent, the benefits to the child are enormous. Question: What will I learn in Cooperative Parenting class? Answer: You can see the course outline for more details about the topics and course content. Overall, you will learn how to become a more calm and solution-focused parent. You will learn how to communicate effectively and assertively. New ideas and skills will give you better tools to cope with your own feelings in response to challenges presented by the co-parent. Cooperative Parenting is a caring and compassionate classroom experience that encourages you to function at the highest possible level so that peace can predominate in your co-parenting relationship. Question: Do both parents attend the same workshop? Answer: No. Parents do not attend the same class because experience has shown that Cooperative Parenting is far more meaningful and beneficial when one parents attends at a time. However, new mates and other family members can attend the same workshop with the parent. The more members of the family understand and use these tools, the better for everyone involved. Question: Where are workshops held? Answer: Workshops are offered in convenient county locations so that they are easily accessed. Currently we have classrooms in San Diego, Chula Vista, La Mesa, Encinitas and Escondido. Question: How much does the class cost? Answer: Tuition is affordable and based on household income. The tuition rates can be found on the registration form. To make payment as flexible as possible, tuition can be paid each week and cash, check or debit/credit cards (Master Card and Visa) are accepted. Question: Who teaches Cooperative Parenting? Answer: Most classes are taught by Shari Delisle, but often an experienced group leader (Char Katz or Pat Conwell) teaches the class. Question: Are make-up sessions possible if I have to miss a class? Answer: It is best for participants to complete all three sessions in order and in the same class. However, if a parent must miss a session, that one can be made up in another location and time. A call to the Cooperative Parenting coordinator at 760-436-3039 will be necessary to do a make-up class. Question: Is this course acceptable to judges and Family Court Services? Answer: Cooperative Parenting is the oldest and most commonly recommended class for co-parents and is appropriate for everyone, no matter how serious the conflict or how long the co-parenting problems have existed. More than half of those who attend are court ordered to take the class. Question: Why does this class help? Answer: For many parents, the ideas present in Cooperative Parenting serve as a "wake up call" and a catalyst for healthy changes. The Cooperative Parenting has a fine reputation and is so popular because it has been effective for so many parents and their children for these reasons: * Parents learn they are not alone
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